Carrying two faces under one hood.

The Word Wrangler
3 min readSep 14, 2023

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We are constantly surrounded by people, some beloved and some shunned in our wake. You can only recognize them once they show their true faces because they are exceptionally sugar-coated. In the case of depreciation, double-faced people are the ones who came first and said, I’ll help you out, but never went in need, leaving you feeling deceived and betrayed. These individuals hide behind masks of kindness and offer assistance, but they are nowhere to be found when you are in need. Their true nature becomes evident when you realize their words are empty and their promises hollow. It is essential to be cautious and observant, for the sugar-coated exterior often conceals sinister intentions.

So, in that case, how will you stay distant from this kind of person who shows more sympathy instead of empathy? You should say whatever you feel in front of their faces so that they will realize who they are!!!! For example, imagine you are going through a difficult time and confide in a friend who claims to be supportive. However, when you open up about your struggles, they dismiss your feelings and offer shallow advice without genuinely understanding your emotions. This person may constantly talk about themselves, seeking validation and attention while failing to provide genuine empathy or support. In order to protect yourself from such individuals, you can establish clear boundaries and prioritize relationships with people who truly demonstrate empathy by actively listening and validating you.

Dealing with people who prioritize their pride over your opinions can be challenging, especially when they dismiss or disregard them. It is essential to be observant and not trust someone who may be taking advantage of you as a sounding board for their negative thoughts.

You can see that everyone has both good and terrible traits, which makes it easier for them to comprehend and sympathize with others. People may build more incredible connections with others around them by accepting this duality. Dualism is the belief that there are two fundamental and eternal entities, such as good and evil, light and darkness, or body and soul. Make wise decisions, therefore, whenever you invest in people.

“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”

Do not let anyone intimidate or diminish you. Set boundaries for yourself and speak up for yourself. Remember, you have the right to your own opinions and feelings. Be in the company of empowering, encouraging people who lift you and foster your development. Believe in your ability to overcome any obstacles that come your way, and have faith in your instincts.

fight your own battles

For example, imagine a young woman who has always been passionate about pursuing a career in a male-dominated field. Despite facing skepticism and discouragement from her peers and even some authority figures, she refuses to let anyone make her feel inferior. She sets boundaries by politely but firmly standing up for herself when faced with condescension or dismissive comments. Surrounding herself with supportive mentors and like-minded individuals, she can build incredible connections and find the strength to overcome any obstacles that come her way. She is determined to prove her worth and knows anything is possible with dedication and hard work.

Shannon L. Alder Said: “Your strength will be found when you stop struggling with yourself instead of thinking everyone is a struggle worth overcoming. Every obstacle in life is a lesson that teaches us, not others.”

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The Word Wrangler
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